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Afraid self-love might make you selfish? Read this.
Self-Love Without Selfishness: What It Really Means Self-love without selfishness sounds impossible, right? I used to believe that too. I used to resist self-love. Not because I didn’t want it… But because I didn’t want to become that person. Why We Fear Self-Love...
What Counts as Cheating? Here’s the Truth Most Couples Miss
There’s a fight that happens again and again behind closed doors. One person feels uneasy about a connection their partner has. The other insists it’s “just a friendship.” And the argument spirals— Not because of what’s actually happening between the partner and their...
Why Do I Feel So Drained When I Talk to You?
For years, I didn’t see it. I thought if I could just explain better—if they could just understand my side—everything would shift. But it never worked. Instead, I’d walk away exhausted, frustrated, replaying the conversation in my head—like something had been taken...
The Two Questions That Will Tell You If It’s Time to Leave
People ask me all the time, “Should I leave my relationship?” They list all the reasons to stay. Then all the reasons to go. They wrestle with guilt, fear, history, and hope. They don’t want to make a mistake. And I always give them the same two questions: 📌 1. Can...
Complaints, Requests & the Silent Killer of Relationships
Complaints, Requests & the Silent Killer of Relationships Most people think complaining is just venting—a way to express frustration and be heard. But here’s the hard truth: Complaints don’t change anything. Requests do. A complaint sounds like:"You never listen...
Love is Unconditional, Relationships Are Not – Why It Matters
Most people don’t know this, and that’s why they suffer. 💡 Love is unconditional—you can love someone no matter what. 💡 But relationships? They require conditions. If you try to play by relationship rules while expecting unconditional love, you’ll get hurt. If you...
The Hidden Trap of Expectations (and How to Break Free)
For a long time, I believed people just didn’t keep their agreements. I would ask for something, they’d say yes, and then they’d let me down. Over and over. I felt frustrated, disappointed—like I couldn’t count on anyone. Then I had a moment of clarity: The agreements...
The Secret to a Love That Lasts (It’s Not What You Think)
A woman once told me, “I just want my husband to hear me.” Another said, “I want to stop walking on eggshells in my own home.” And one brave man whispered, “I miss the way we used to be.” These words stick with me because I hear them all the time. The truth is, no one...
Unlock the Power of Your Nights: A Simple 3-Step Ritual for Peace & Clarity
How we end the day matters. Nights aren’t just for sleep—they’re for reflection, release, and renewal. When we take time to close the day with intention, we create space for peace, clarity, and joy to greet us the next morning. Here’s a simple 3-step nightly ritual...
Losing My Rock: What Grief Is Teaching Me About Love & Healing
My dad passed away last Saturday. Even as I write those words, they catch in my throat. My dad was my rock—steady, strong, always there. As a little girl, I used to feel this knot of fear whenever I imagined losing him. And now? That fear has become real. His absence...